‘Buddha rarely spoke of his own personal experiences of enlightenment. He knew that to focus on the experiences themselves could lead to attachment, to the mistaken belief that awakening is a particular state of mind to be achieved.’ Everyday Buddhism
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Why We Remember Bad Experiences More Than Good Ones
Have you ever noticed how easily your mind remembers something that went wrong? I remember having imaginary conversations in the shower, thinking about what I should have said or could have said differently. I’d be in there for what felt like far too long, replaying...
From Hyper-Independent to Human: Learning How to Accept Help
“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome.” ~Brené Brown It happened on a regular Tuesday night over the smallest thing. I was cooking dinner after a really long, exhausting day at...
Morning meditation — Deepen your practice.
‘When insight arises — deepen your practice.’ Gampopa
When Doing More Is Really an Attempt to Control the Outcome
“Uncertainty is the only certainty there is, and knowing how to live with insecurity is the only security.” ~John Allen Paulos I refreshed the analytics page even though I had checked it only a few minutes earlier. The number had not changed, so I opened the project,...
Morning meditation — Everyone has a natural koan.
‘Everyone has a natural koan. What's worrying you now? A seemingly intractable problem. Illness, old age, death?’ Everyday Buddhism
Morning meditation — Studying the Way is to always contemplate the self-nature.
‘Studying the Way is to always contemplate the self-nature: This is to be identical with all the buddhas.’ Hui Neng
Morning meditation — Even a cat has sati [mindfulness].
‘Even a cat has sati [mindfulness]. When it sees a mouse, sati is there. The cat's eyes stare fixedly at the mouse. This is sati of a cat.’ Ajahn Chah
How to Shift Mental Gears: 10 Ways to Build Resilience
If we view challenges as stressful setbacks, there's an opportunity to shift our perspective and grow from our experiences. The post How to Shift Mental Gears: 10 Ways to Build Resilience appeared first on Mindful.
When “Nothing Is Wrong” Keeps You in the Wrong Life
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” ~Carl Jung I was twenty-eight years old, standing in front of a mirror, reaching for my lipstick. I couldn’t put it on. I was engaged. A wedding was ahead of me. The invitations, expectations, and imagined...
