As I write these words, sirens are sounding. Not as a memory or a metaphor. Right now, outside my window, on the sixth day of the war on Iran, missile attack sirens are wailing. My body does not wait for my mind — it has done this before. It contracts, pulls inward,...
Spirituality
The Beautiful Gift We Give Without Even Knowing
“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh Five years ago, my son missed a basketball tryout. We had been out of town, and by the time we got back, the rosters were already set. I made a few calls anyway, hoping someone might give...
Morning meditation – A beginner to Buddhist practice has more chance.
‘A beginner to Buddhist practice has more chance of awakening than someone who thinks they know it all.’ Zen Graffiti
Mental Health Affirmations for May
Recently I was a participant for a research study where they asked me a question, "What is your definition of mental health?" That question left me blank for a moment while I found myself deep in thought. After years of working, learning and being around the mental...
Morning meditation — As we continue our journey.
‘Buddha’s path is not one of striving but a path of realising, not a path of becoming but a path of being. It is a path that asks us to let go of our ideas about enlightenment and to experience the truth of our own being, directly and intimately, in each moment of our...
Morning meditation — Teachings can be most profound.
‘Teachings can be most profound, but those who listen may not understand. Just do the practice wholeheartedly and you can arrive at real understanding; it will bring you to the same place the teachings are talking about.’ Ajahn Chah
A Little-Known Truth About People-Pleasing and How to Stop (for Good)
“Being a people-pleaser may be more than a personality trait; it could be a response to serious trauma.” ~Alex Bachert Growing up in a home, school, and church that placed a lot of value on good behavior, self-discipline, and corporal punishment, I was a model child....
Fragrance of chrysanthemums.
Fragrance of chrysanthemums in Nara there are so many old Buddha statues Basho
5 Lessons on Vanity: An Invitation to Awareness and Letting Go
Aging and death are inevitable. And while we know this intellectually, it is difficult to accept this particularly in a youth adoring culture. Teacher Patricia Rockman explores vanity and this tender, confusing, frustrating journey with our bodies, our attachment to...
On the Other Side of Sadness: Teaching Our Kids (and Ourselves) That It’s Okay to Feel Anything
Do our kids know that it's okay to feel sad? To feel whatever they're feeling? Heather Campbell Grimes explores learning to sit with her daughter’s emotions, and her own. The post On the Other Side of Sadness: Teaching Our Kids (and Ourselves) That It’s Okay to Feel...
