‘Only one familiar with the observation of mind can really understand Dhamma.’ Buddhadasa Bhikkhu
Spirituality
Buddhism & Well-Being: What Do U.S. Buddhists Think?
These days, Buddhism is a familiar presence in the American conversation about wellbeing, invoked in wellness culture, clinical research, and popular media as a path toward calmer minds and healthier bodies. But as a scholar who has long focused on “Buddhist medicine”...
You Can’t Force a Loving Heart to Grow
During the 2020 fires in southern Oregon, I bought an air purifier. I set it up, turned it on, and felt better. It ran for months. When I finally opened it to change the filter, the plastic wrap was still on. There was one small tear, and under the tear a black dot —...
The Pressure to Excel: When Success Feels Like Survival
“To tie your worth to achievements is a recipe for suffering.” ~Brad Bizjack Children don’t just learn mathematics, science, and languages in school. They also learn what success feels like, what failure means, who they believe they are, and sometimes, whether they...
Morning meditation — Its source is neither from heaven nor from earth.
‘Its source is neither from heaven nor from earth; its heroism does not depend upon the changing seasons. Then from where does it arise?’ Chan Master Fenyang
How “Missing the Boat” Led Me Somewhere Better
A few months ago, I found myself wondering whether I had made a mistake. It is not a question I expected to be asking in my seventies. Like many people my age, I sometimes think about retirement, savings, and financial security. I look around and see friends who spent...
Morning Meditation — Now, wellbeing is a beautiful thing.
‘Now, wellbeing is a beautiful thing; there is no inherent shortcoming in wellbeing. The problem is in our excited reaction to it.’ Corrado Pensa
Where awareness and insight come together.
Buddha is the quality of awareness that observes without judgement, the compassion that arises naturally when we let go of our self-centred views.
The Quiet Work of Becoming Resilient
We hear about resilience often, yet most of us don’t recognize it when it quietly appears in our own life. It doesn’t always look like strength or steadiness. Sometimes resilience is a trembling breath we manage to stay with when we’re meditating after a stressful...
Loving Someone on a Different Path
You go on a retreat, finish a training, dive into therapy, or spend a week doing the kind of inner work that shifts something real inside you. You come home changed, while the person you love most is still exactly the same. The same habits, the same reactions, the...
