A Practice to Meet Bad Habits with Loving-Kindness

Here’s my spiritual practice these days: moment-to-moment I try to be mindful of the arising of ill will in my mind and try to meet it with clear, compassionate response. This reflects the Buddha’s basic instruction on how to work with our negative patterns:...

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How to Work with Anxiety on the Path of Liberation

When we investigate the experience of anxiety, the Western approach takes the experience itself as its starting point. What triggered the anxiety? How can we work with it? How can we make it go away? We can never solve our lives. Life is not a thing that can be broken...

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The Middle Way of Stress

Life is stressful. Although some people claim that contemporary life is especially stressful, I am skeptical whether that is so. Living beings have always had to struggle for food, for shelter, and for safety. They have always had the stress of finding a mate and...

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The Dharma of Fiction

There She Was Emily France on Mrs. Dalloway. Virginia Woolf’s novel Mrs. Dalloway follows a single day in the life of a British socialite in 1923. The plot is simple. Mrs. Dalloway buys flowers in a London shop, has a visit from a former suitor, and hosts a party. But...

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How to Experience the True Nature of Mind

According to the Buddha, the basic nature of mind can be directly experienced simply by allowing the mind to rest as it is. How do we accomplish this? Let’s try a brief exercise in resting the mind. This is not a meditation exercise. In fact, it’s an exercise in...

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The Sacred Desire to Exist

When people have an existential crisis or when they do deep reflection, they begin to ask questions that normal people don’t ask, such as, “Why am I here? Why is there a universe in the first place? Why does everything exist?” Most of the time, we don’t understand why...

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