How “Missing the Boat” Led Me Somewhere Better

A few months ago, I found myself wondering whether I had made a mistake. It is not a question I expected to be asking in my seventies. Like many people my age, I sometimes think about retirement, savings, and financial security. I look around and see friends who spent...

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The Quiet Work of Becoming Resilient

We hear about resilience often, yet most of us don’t recognize it when it quietly appears in our own life. It doesn’t always look like strength or steadiness. Sometimes resilience is a trembling breath we manage to stay with when we’re meditating after a stressful...

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Loving Someone on a Different Path

You go on a retreat, finish a training, dive into therapy, or spend a week doing the kind of inner work that shifts something real inside you. You come home changed, while the person you love most is still exactly the same. The same habits, the same reactions, the...

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Nourish Yourself

Paramita is a Sanskrit word that means “gone to the other shore.” Whenever I read this definition, I imagine myself swimming out to sea, leaving behind what is familiar but limiting in search of a more skillful way of relating to my life.  The six...

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